How I feel internally because I told family members about something serious: It is a case of did I do the right thing (which I think i did) and also potential reactions/bitching from the people around me.
The Remorse of Orestes (1862)
I don’t regret why I said it (or at least laid enough breadcrumbs to strongly HINT at it) because I don’t feel like these things should be covered up. I don’t need to carry on but it’s a simple matter of fact to me. I feel like this is a test of how well I can trust/rely on these family members and if they fail (freak out/react or take it out on me) in my eyes – this means I did the right thing by not previously engaging with those family members.